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Using the seven cognitive tools (i.e., perceiving, patterning,
abstracting, embodied thinking, modeling, playing, and synthesizing) I hope to
illuminate and expand upon the benefits of peer mentoring programs as a
successful practice for Chinese international students. These tools for
developing creative enhance mentoring programs by encouraging student affairs
professionals to re-create what has traditionally been done. It is a way to
look at traditional mentoring programs and re-invent was has not work and
re-enforce what has.
Improving the Program
Perceiving is all about how we sense or view something. My
original observation of mentoring programs for Chinese international programs
typically perceived them from a visual lens. Looking at programs through only a
single lens, in this case visual, created a flawed understanding of the
program. When perceiving a mentor program visually, the question of “what does
is look like?” is prioritized. The answer to this question often includes
words, which by definition; involve some sort of power dynamic. For example,
the statement “In the mentoring program, I see a domestic student assisting a
Chinese international student.” In this example, the domestic student is the
one with the power who capable of “assisting” the Chinese student. Assisting
could also be replaced with words such as: informing, aiding, helping, and
advising. This view dismisses the skills, knowledge, and abilities of
international students and creates a flawed understanding of the true nature
and purpose of mentoring programs. One must recognize that domestic students
are not the only ones who have the skills and knowledge to help others. The
true value of a successful mentoring program is an exchange of knowledge. By
expanding our perception of mentoring programs to include questions of
feelings, rather than limiting them to previous visual perceptions, we begin to
change our perceptions of mentoring programs. By asking “how do you feel?” we
are able to see and hear a shared value of knowledge. Domestic students are no
longer viewed as the bearers of knowledge; rather both students begin to engage
in dialogues and opportunities that promote an exchange of knowledge and
skills. The mentoring programs become more of a partnership program where
two-way learning is valued and encouraged.
Once we are able to understand the greater benefit of
mentoring program by re-imagining them to cultivate two-way learning. The goal
of traditional mentoring programs has been to provide answers, a sort of
one-stop shop. However, this pattern reinforces the value of the domestic
student over the international student. I offer a new pattern that focuses on
empowering international students. In this pattern the international student is
taught how to find answers and use resources in their new environment, as
opposed to the answers being provided to them. Additionally, this pattern still
provides support for when international students cannot find the answers. The cyclical
nature supports and encourages student to first, use the tools they have to
find the answer and then after, if they are not able to do so and they still
have a question, the international student can then seek the assistance of a
peer mentor.
An additional benefit to mentoring program is the
opportunity for verbal communication and dialogue. I have found, after speaking
with several Chinese international students, a theme of non-effective passive
communication. For the majority of Chinese international students, sending an
email or posting a sign about a program or service is not an effective way of
communicating or promoting.
Student affairs professionals and mentors must embody an
invitation that would otherwise be sent via email or created as a flier. The
verbal invitation that comes from physical interaction is what has been the
most effective way of communicating with Chinese international students. When
one takes the time to physically and personally invite me, it indirectly
communicates that I am wanted and cared for. This personal direct invitation
speaks much louder in one's care for me, than a blanket, non-personal email.
[voice]
Improving the Lived
Experience
However, in order for mentoring programs to be successful practice
for Chinese international students, we must look beyond ways to improve the practice and remember the overall intention
of the success of the student. Student
should be both the most important aspect and at the center of what student
affairs professionals do.
Students have multiple obligations in which they are
constantly prioritizing and re-prioritizing. Time is a limited resource, and
professionals must be aware that what we may believe to be the most beneficial
use a student’s time and energy may not be what they believe to be the best use
of their time. Often times as professionals we make assumptions based on a
limited knowledge of our students and their lives, this knowledge has only been
acquired by what students choose tells us. Students may be juggling a range of
obligations on their own, obligations that professionals may be completely
unaware of. As professionals, we need to not only understand a student’s choice
to independently address challenges, but also respect and support it.
With that being said, successful mentoring programs have a huge potential for being a strong support system for Chinese international students,
which may help them address the multiple stressors and obligations in their
lives. In the Bronfenbrenner’s Mircrosystem we see words like school, family,
and peers.
It is within this system that peers influence the
individual, or mentors influence the experience of Chinese international
students. The goal of a mentoring program is not only to provide opportunities
for international students to find answers and seek support, but to develop
authentic relationships between domestic and international students. It is with
this relationship that the true potential of mentoring programs is realized.
From speaking with Chinese international students this semester, many have the
sentiment that while abroad in a foreign country, their friends are more than
peers and colleagues, friends become family. Therefore if peer mentors and
Chinese international develop an authentic friendship, Chinese international
students are supported in the Microsystem, not only by peers, but also by
"family".
As mentioned, peer mentoring programs for Chinese
international students need to be more than venues to find answers; they need
to be opportunities that promote authentic relationships and friendships. In
order for this to happen, Chinese international students need to be viewed as
more than individuals who only benefit from mentoring programs due to the
information provided to them. They must be viewed and individuals with
knowledge and experiences that are valued equally. With the goal to create
authentic friendships in mind, the value of play becomes quite clear.
In order for a peer mentoring program to be successful, it
should include a range of “playing” opportunities. These opportunities for play
should initially be low risk, as both international and domestic students are
being introduced to new expectations, surroundings, and people. However,
through these initial low-risk playful activities, students begin to strengthen
relationships and feel more comfortable with each other, which then provide the
opportunity for high-risk activities that truly strengthen relationships. I
outline one possible activity that would serve in building and strengthening
relationships (
Playing: Art Museum)
Successful mentoring programs for Chinese international
students embrace the concept of two-way learning; valuing the experiences and knowledge
of both the domestic and international students. This change is values then
leads to a change in practice. Mentor programs should become less of a one-stop
shop that provides answers and more of an on-going training that promotes the
development of skills to navigate new systems and cultures. Through this
building of knowledge together, there becomes an opportunity for authentic relationship
building. Successful mentoring programs will take advantage of this opportunity,
and prioritize authentic and meaningful relationships and friendships between
domestic and international students. The benefit of this strong relationship is
that peers become friends, and then friends become family. With this
relationship mentors are now seen as family members whose opinions, advice, and
conversations become a support system within themselves. In this regard,
mentors are more than a means to an answer and international students are more
than an inquiring foreign student. The relationship the domestic and
international student share is a support system for them both, which in turn
leads hopefully to higher success and retention for all students involved.